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Inquisitive Mother in Law

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Last Updated on Tuesday, 15 April 2014 15:02

Correspondence of Hazrat Moulana Yunus Patel Saheb (rahimahullah)

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Respected Moulana

Whenever I intend to go out, my mother in law asks me where I am going. I am finding this very annoying. I feel she is being too nosey. Do I have to tell her?

There is no place my husband and I go to without her wanting to know where we are going. I find this very interfering in my marriage and feel she just wants to exercise her authority over her youngest son. Is it still his duty to answer her, or can we just say we are going out, greet her and not tell her the actual places?

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Repentance

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Last Updated on Tuesday, 15 April 2014 14:56

Correspondence of Hazrat Moulana Yunus Patel Saheb (rahimahullah)

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As Salaamu ‘alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakaatuh

Maulana, despite having spent 5 years at madrasah, and being occupied in the service of deen, I still find myself weak with regard to nafs (the carnal self) and Shaitaan. I still fall into some sin or the other. This makes me very despondent and a feeling of darkness envelops me. I carry out some good actions and then spoil them with some bad deed. There are times when I find myself intending to do something displeasing to Allah Ta‘ala, then though I find restlessness in my heart, I give in to nafs and Shaitaan. After this, I cry in repentance, but after some time, fall into some sin again.

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Becoming a Second Wife

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Last Updated on Tuesday, 21 January 2014 16:33

Correspondence of Hazrat Moulana Yunus Patel Saheb (rahimahullah)

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Assalamualaikum.

Respected Moulana

Please help, I feel like I am going to have a nervous breakdown. I am taking tablets to calm myself but I don’t think it’s working anymore. I had a proposal from a married man who wants me to be his second wife. I keep refusing him because I know my parents will not accept it. He is a family person. He insists that what he asks is not haraam and sometimes I just feel like listening to him. My parents are very sickly and I fear that if I do make nikaah it will affect their health very badly. Now I feel that if I make nikaah I won’t be happy in my marriage because my parents are not happy and maybe Allah will punish me in some way. So many thoughts are running through my mind. It’s so confusing and I am so afraid of having a nervous breakdown, I cannot even sleep at night. Your help and duas will be appreciated.

Jazakallah

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Social Networks

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Last Updated on Wednesday, 13 November 2013 09:15

Correspondence of Hazrat Moulana Yunus Patel Saheb (rahimahullah)

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Respected Maulana, I have a question regarding Facebook and chat sites in general. What is the sharee‘ah perspective on a wife using Facebook to chat with friends from school and work, including non-Muslim male friends from her work-place?

The wife's initial intention to get Facebook was to catch up with female friends from her school days.

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Husband on Drugs

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Last Updated on Tuesday, 20 August 2013 07:41

Correspondence of Hazrat Moulana Yunus Patel Saheb (rahimahullah)

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Assalamualaikum

Moulana

I am married for 2 yrs and have a 10 month old baby. When I got married my husband was not on drugs. A few months later he started using drugs, I do not trust him and sometimes hate him for what he put me through. I just feel like being away from him, what should I do Moulana, please help me.

May Allah reward you abundantly in both worlds.

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