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Smile and the World will Smile with You

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Monday, 01 October 2012 11:09

There once lived a couple who were almost totally opposite to each other in everything. The wife was extremely beautiful and good natured while the husband was the most unattractive and ill tempered person around. One day the wife was asked “How do you remain patient with such a man in your marriage?” She replied, “In my life I may have committed a sin, therefore as a punishment Allah Ta’ala gave me such a husband. As for my husband, he may have done a good deed in his life, thus Allah Ta’ala has rewarded him with a beautiful wife like me.”

Lesson: A positive person will manage to bring about happiness and a smile in the most negative conditions, whereas a negative person will choose to remain sad and frown in even a positive condition. We need to programme our minds to become positive and remain positive. The world is full of negatives. We need more positives to brighten things up. It does not cost us anything to smile, but it definitely has a great impact. It will make us feel happier and brighten up the day of others around us as well.

 

Entry into Jannah Because of Abundant Durood

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Saturday, 29 September 2012 06:54

A person saw Abu Hafs Kaaghadi (rahimahullah) in a dream after his demise and enquired from him as to what had transpired? He replied: “Allah had mercy on me, forgave my sins and admitted me into paradise”. On asking him the reason for that, he answered: “When I appeared before Allah Ta’ala, the angels were commanded to count my durood as well as my sins. It turned out that my durood outnumbered my sins. Hence my Lord commanded: “O angels, let that be enough, let there be no further reckoning and take him into my Paradise”. (Al Qaulul-Badee' pg 259)

Lesson: Abundance of durood assures safety and salvation both in this world as well as the next.

 

Nikaah, How Long after the Proposal?

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Thursday, 27 September 2012 14:20

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How long after a proposal is it advisable to make nikaah?

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Confinement, Mother’s house or In-laws?

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Thursday, 27 September 2012 14:27

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Assalamu alaikum

I am living with my in-laws and I am expecting and was wondering what are the islamic views regarding going to my mother’s house for confinement. People keep taunting and saying it’s not permissible.

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Husband Committed Adultery – Wife Devastated

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Thursday, 27 September 2012 14:12

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My husband committed adultery in a hotel room with someone he only knew for a week. I came to find out by chance. I have spoken to the woman and she says she knew he was rich and wanted to get money out of him, therefore she trapped him into this. My husband has now repented and performs his salaah, etc. The problem is I can't let it go. I just want to keep knowing more and more about what happened in that room. I can't accept it as we had such a perfect marriage. He also agrees that it had nothing to do with me or our marriage. He just went astray. I can't make sabr and everyday I keep thinking and start a new fight. 

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